Life is not fair, you must understand why. First everything revolves around your choices. Sometimes those choices lead you down the wrong path, sometimes your choice actually leads you to better things and less problems in your life.
Are your choices in line with the will of God for your life? Not everything that looks good is good. You have to measure them against the Word of God.
That means that you need to feed your spirit the word of God at least 3 times a day. It is not like the physical food; it won’t cause you to get fat or bloated. It nourishes your spirit with restoration and rest. The more you feed on the word, your spiritual health with grow. It will also grow your relationship with the Lord.
Isaiah 55:11 says, “So shall my word be that goes forth out of my mouth: it shall not return unto me void, but it shall accomplish that which I please, and it shall prosper in the thing whereto I sent it”.
This can work both ways, remember to speak the Word of God to yourself aloud, your spirit will act on the word, and you will begin to live it. Same thing when you speak death, it will become attached to your spirit. So be careful what you say aloud to yourself and others.
The tongue is powerful” means that words spoken, through the tongue, can have a significant impact on others, capable of both uplifting and encouraging with kind words, or hurting and discouraging with harsh words; essentially highlighting the importance of mindful speech and using words wisely.
I know this is true, I have lived it, We who follow Jesus must be careful and change our speech so that we reflect the Love of the Lord and not the filth of the world. Before speaking over others reflect and ask the Lord for direction. Loving someone as ourselves does not mean we approve of their actions or lifestyle, Remember the evil disaster and actions that the Lord pulled you out of and forgave you for. I must remind myself of this and it is why we can’t sit in Judgment of others.
Romans 12:9 NKJV Let love be without hypocrisy. Abhor what is evil. Cling to what is good. 10 Be kindly affectionate to one another with brotherly love, in honor giving preference to one another; 11 not lagging in diligence, fervent in spirit, serving the Lord; 12 rejoicing in hope, patient[c] in tribulation, continuing steadfastly in prayer; 13 distributing to the needs of the saints, given[d] to hospitality.
14 Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. 15 Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep. 16 Be of the same mind toward one another. Do not set your mind on high things, but associate with the humble. Do not be wise in your own opinion.
17 Repay no one evil for evil. Have[e] regard for good things in the sight of all men. 18 If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men. 19 Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but rather give place to wrath; for it is written, “Vengeance is Mine, I will repay,” says the Lord. 20 Therefore
“If your enemy is hungry, feed him;
If he is thirsty, give him a drink;
For in so doing you will heap coals of fire on his head.”
Our job is not to Judge. It is described in Romans 12.
It is important to remember that Old and New Testaments work together to help us in our Relationship with the Lord. You can’t really get to know him if you don’t use both Testaments. The Old Testament gave us instructions, the New Testament gives clarity in our relationship with the Lord.
Remember your choices set your path. If you wish to walk with the Lord, you must fill your spirit with the Lord. The Fountain of living Water.



